A recent Instagram video by Sheila Nollert, the powerhouse behind the account @grandma_moves, begins with her drinking tea in a rocking chair, covered with a blanket and reading a book. “Society says senior years look like this,” reads the words flashing across the screen. “Nope!”
Down goes the teacup and up Nollert gets, casting off her blanket to reveal sportswear and running shoes. With the back of her heel, she tips over the rocking chair and strides into the forest to begin a vigorous workout.
This short clip embodies the ethos that drives Nollert to share content through @grandma_moves. It’s a powerful message. How often do we put off living for today—doing activities that bring us joy or help us cultivate strength—because we feel there will be a better time to do so in the future, or that our best days are behind us?
But learning to live for the here and now offers a wealth of mental and physical benefits, and it’s easier to do than you may think.
Stop waiting
Ageist messages, says Nollert, work to keep older folks down, making them feel as if they have no business in engaging in activities traditionally associated with a younger crowd. By accepting these narratives, we limit ourselves and miss out on opportunities for personal growth, strengthening our bodies, and connecting with others.
Set long-term goals
Setting and working toward long-term goals is one way to hold yourself accountable and ensure you don’t miss out on opportunities for joy and growth.
If a particular goal feels inaccessible, says Nollert, try breaking it down into smaller steps. For example, maybe you’ve always wanted to run a half-marathon but now find running a challenge. Can you start strength training to make running a possibility again? If not, can you walk the half-marathon, or try out a 10 km route?
Seize the day
Along with long-term goal planning, we can work to enjoy daily moments to their fullest. Nollert lives by a simple motto to help make the most of the mundane: “Every day is a vacation day.” This motto can apply to anyone, whether you’re working full time or already enjoying retirement. What it means is to take the time to do something, no matter how small, that makes each day feel special.
“Make a date with the sunrise,” suggests Nollert. “Even if it’s overcast, take the opportunity to look out to the horizon and be in that moment. [If] it’s the wintertime and it’s hard to get up, light a candle while you’re having breakfast.”
Even an activity like walking the dog can bring joy, says Nollert, if we allow it to. “Instead of thinking of it as a chore, try to take it all in—the colors of the trees, the breeze, the sounds of the birds. Feel the earth under your feet. Enjoy.”
By Isabela Vera
